About Nicki

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​I am a spiritual life coach. I am passionate about helping people get the life they want.  How?  By helping them learn to remember who they are.  Each session takes about an hour and I work with people for an average of 5 sessions.  We talk through several exercises to find out what you love and how you want your life to be.  It doesn’t matter what your current circumstances are, this process is designed to help you learn to love yourself so you can move forward with confidence to get the life you want.  We’ll use a combination of techniques to help free you from past experiences and negative thought patterns.  These include repeating energy release statements, tapping on acupressure points and angelic healing.

You CAN get your life back

​How did you become a spiritual life coach?

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During the past twenty years I have had a steep learning curve navigating through very severe illness. I suffered from extreme sensitivities to almost all foods, medicines, mould, everyday chemicals like washing powder, perfume and cleaning products, and even some electrical frequencies. I also had Crohn’s Disease which made everything more complicated. I was diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome for which there is no medical cure; I met a lot of practitioners who had no idea how to help me, and some who even told me it wasn’t possible to be that ill! I nearly died a couple of times and was forced to abandon my career as a primary teacher, but I am not one to give up and so my journey to wellness began. With help from friends and family I founded a national charity and support group to help other people who have environmental illness (www.mcs-aware.org).  I researched and researched ways to support my immune and detoxification systems. I learnt about the limbic system, tried ways to calm my nervous system, and finally started the long journey to physical, mental and emotional wellbeing. The spiritual side came when I began to realise I was also sensitive to angelic frequencies. 

What’s spiritual about being a life coach?

When I was at my lowest,  one of my best friends died, and the same day so did my pet guinea pig. I didn’t know how to cope. I went to the kitchen, collected several cups and plates, and took them outside, hurling them onto the patio. I highly recommend it. The smash of the crockery helped release some of the energy I couldn’t contain. The grief of everything I’d lost made me feel as though part of my heart was missing. I didn’t know what to do. As I was sitting quietly on the sofa, I suddenly became aware of an incredibly huge presence of love and awe. It was an angel. The angel healed the hole in my heart; it just happened. After that incredible experience my intuition developed and I now work with my guides and angels on a daily basis. I use my spiritual healing team during life coaching sessions to give me guidance on the best strategies to use.

​Are you cured? 

​Am I a super-healthy person able to eat whatever I like, run marathons and live in a bubble of happiness? No. Do I wake up happy every day? Yes, quite often. Do I feel contented and loved? Yes. Do I have a life I love? Yes, mostly, and I’m working on the rest. Have I sussed out the formula to eternal youth and spiritual freedom. Er no, not quite! My body isn’t 100% healthy, I still have to live carefully to take care of my immune and detoxification systems. What I have managed to do is become aware of how I see the world so I can choose how I want to feel. I choose to feel happy and content, so most of the time I do have the opportunity to feel happy and content. Simple but not easy, and it's nothing to do with positivity!
We all filter what we see and how we feel through the lens of our previous experiences. That means if you have had a previously bad experience being bitten by a dog, every time you see a dog you will refer back to that experience and catalogue it as something potentially dangerous. That’s one way of seeing the world, and it is very useful as a survival strategy. But our catalogue of negative or biased experiences can build up and start becoming so big that you trip over them every time you try to move forward. What spiritual life coaching can help you do is release that back catalogue of unhelpful associations so you can get your freedom back to live the life you want.
Is it all about being optimistic?
No. Optimism is great, but it only works as little as 5% of the time. Why? Because you are only consciously thinking 5% of the time. The rest of the day you are running automated thought processes – your body runs on autopilot as your subconscious takes over. In order to heal and move forward we need to release and retrain your autopilot.

How can a spiritual life coach help me?

​I don’t have all the answers but I believe that you do. Deep inside you do know who you are and what you need to do in order to be happy. I will work with you to find your route to healing. We will work together to develop a healing strategy to help you let go of the past and move forward to get the life you want. In order to receive the light and love we need, we must surrender. This can leave us feeling vulnerable and at risk, and although we REALLY want to change our lives, the fear of change can leave us going round in circles. Our conscious mind wants change but our autopilots resist it because it’s too scary. Spiritual life coaching supports you through this process.

Nicki, what inspires you?

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I have realised that I’m never going to get to the end of my journey. It doesn’t matter how many spiritual enlightenment Facebook pages I follow, how many meditations I listen to or how many yoga classes I attend, I’m never going to get ‘there’. It took a long time to realise that. Every day I make lists of things to do and I think ‘if only I can get everything on this list done, then I will be able to stop, then I can relax, then I will be good enough’. And then I realised that was never going to happen. Because the list KEEPS GROWING! It’s not about getting to the end point, it’s about accepting who you are NOW; learning to love all parts of you – the fabulous and the furious. You are the most perfect version of you that has ever been born. Without all your unfortunate bits, the fabulous bits couldn’t be. You deserve love simply because you exist, you don’t need to achieve anything other than being the most wonderful, loving self you know you are. Spiritual life coaching can help you with that, and so can doing anything that makes you feel happy, awed and amazed.
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What inspires me? Beautiful things. I love music, sound baths and laughter. I love spending time with animals and feeling their unconditional love. I love seeing things that amaze me: kind thoughts, incredible sculptures, the vibrant colours of a painting, things that I thought weren’t possible. I believe we should all play more. I love making giant soapy bubbles, splashing in puddles and baths, making sand sculptures on the beach, playing with clay and paint. Playing takes us out of our logical left brain and lets us loose with the creative, intuitive right half of the brain. And that’s when the fun happens.

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